Tuesday, March 15, 2011

we love Wendy Hill

I just wanted to tell a story that Wendy Hill recently shared with our family. This happened the day of Kimberly's funeral service. Wendy said that she needed to take her son out into the foyer during the service. When she got out there, she saw a man that looked a little lost and looked like he was searching for someone. She went up to him and asked if she could help him. He then asked to see a Priest. She replied that we didn't have a Priest at this church, but that he could see someone who held the Priesthood. He then sat down by her in the foyer and started to listen to Kim's funeral service. He heard some of our family speak, and then he heard President Crawley's talk. After that talk, Wendy said that he began to sob. Come to find out, he had planned on taking his life that day. But, because of Kim's funeral service he had a change of heart. He was so impressed with her life, and how tragically it had been taken. He knew he still had life ahead of him, and that he could not take his life after hearing all of this. This story touched our hearts, because even after death, Kim still continues to save lives! We have to believe that the Lord and Kim had a hand in this miracle. How else can you explain the fact that he walked into a random church, on a Friday, found people there, and it was Kim's funeral service! What a beautiful story! Thank you so much Wendy for telling our family this! 

Saturday, March 12, 2011

We love the Rancho Vista Ward


Tragedy is something you never want to think about, and certainly something you never think will happen to you. The loss of our sweet Kimberly has been heartbreaking. One light at the end of the tunnel, however, has been the generosity from those surrounding us. Never have I seen such an outpouring of love from friends, family, and even strangers. Rob and Kim's ward have really been their for our family. This morning I received these pictures of the service that was being done in their home. They have been cleaning up the yard, cleaning out cupboards, fixing the sprinkler system, patching the walls, having the carpets cleaned, babysitting, bringing meals every day, and the list can go on and on. 

Kim always served others, and more often then not dropped what she was doing to help those in need. Kim is continuing to live on in our hearts through all of the service that is being done. Our family cannot thank everyone enough for all that you have done. We know there are many of you out there who have helped the family make it through this difficult time. Thank you all for you kindness!

We love Matthew

Kimberly's funeral was so touching. She will be in our hearts forever, and with us in spirit. I wanted to share the poem that was written by her brother, Matthew, at her funeral.

Kimberly: A Cherished Mother of Vikings

Kimberly, the ability to be a valiant mother of Vikings,
Often takes courage and patience beyond ones liking.
Perhaps your preparation started while you were still at an early age,
Earning the honorable nickname of ‘Ox,’ which quickly became your personal gauge.

Kimberly, in a world engulfed by materialistic possessions,
Its awe inspiring a Viking mother would encourage a religious obsession.
Your Kindness, Involuntary sacrifice, and Munificence, never struggled to grow and exist,
These attributes could not be purchased on eBay or obtained for free on Craig’s list.

Kimberly, with such a restless intensity that defies any type of relaxation,
It shouldn’t be a wonder why God called upon you early for a specific action.
Although you may not physically be present to enjoy a Viking excursion or trip,
Your mission is much greater; to prepare the heavens for a Viking welcome – a heavenly flip.
Kimberly, your special name means a Leader of Warriors;
Your Vikings are warriors, who you’ve taught to cherish the Savior.
Reading the scriptures and a picnic on the lawn during a temple look,
Always were more important than cleaning or becoming a master cook.

Kimberly, did you know the Savior’s age reflects yours at time of death?
His charitable ways you clearly mirrored by sacrificing until you were out of breath.
Many say your passing is ironic and poignant, but your compassion lives on with your heart,
Still powerfully beating, providing another at a chance to hang on and not have to depart.

Kimberly, where did the sands of time go so rapidly ushering in a quick sudden release?
With your life having floated by, please make a plea to Father who can cause this storm to cease.
I know each Beck Viking will look back on all the yesterdays,
And clearly remember their cherished mother, who always had time to play.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

we love Alicia

Burger King on 17th St. with the funky indoor playground smell. Teaching at Tot Lot. Starbucks Hot Chocolate and Carmel Apple Spice and long conversations by car or on the couch. Late Night dates at Norms. Camping in San Barbara at El Capitan our two huge tents and ten kids was quite the site to see. Going to see Tom Petty in concert w/ Rob and Evan, Rob surprised Kim with the camera she wanted for her birthday! Bithday Parties and Dinners. Countless Beach days and park days. My favorite time at the park was when the helicopter landed in the middle of the field to airlift a hiker out of the canyon. I don't know who thought it was cooler the adults or the kids. Blessings, Baptisms, texting during church when something funny was said. Our Pregnancies and birth of our babies, I loved watching the kids while Kim was in labor. I am especially thankful for the memories we made this past month we were able to get together on two different occassions which isn't always easy since her move to Palmdale. We had so much fun meeting at the "Tot Lot" Park and timing each other and the kids while running (literally) to the fence. I will always treasure the girl's night we had with Savannah, Chloe, Aubree, Emilee, Kim and I. We went to Cafe Rio for dinner, B.J.'s for a Giant Pizookie, took the girls for a walk on the pier and than Kim and I just sat talked and laughed while the girls played on the playground in the sand. It was cold but this particular memory will forever hold a special place in my heart.
I really can't think of any major event in my life without Kim being in it, whether by phone or person she was always in every aspect of my life. Kim and I were like sisters she was the best friend ever. She was such an amazing example of a mother, wife, friend and person. I trusted her with my entire being and will miss her more than words can say.

Love, Alicia